Young Minds Eye Foundation


ENVISION YOUR FUTURE


  • Home
  • Our Story
  • Our Services
    • Young Minds Academy
    • YM Talk Buddies
    • Young Minds Hub
  • The team
    • Board Members
    • Executive Members
  • Volunteer
  • Contact Us

Self-Harm



Estimated Reading Time: 2 min



By: Emma Shen - April 24, 2022

Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.”
- J.K. Rowling



What is self-harm?



Self-harm is the intentional act of hurting one’s own body used as a coping mechanism for emotional distress, frustration, and anger. Generally, self-harm is not considered a suicide attempt; however, self-harm increases the risk of suicide.


Temporary feelings of calmness or euphoria may occur after self-harming, but one may also experience feelings of shame and guilt. This can cause more unwanted emotions, which can lead to a cycle of self-harm.



Why causes self harm?



Although self-harm is not a form of mental illness, it may indicate an underlying mental illness such as depression, an eating disorder, borderline personality disorder, or post-traumatic stress disorder. There is no exclusive reason why one may self-harm, but it can be the result of:

  • Difficulty regulating/managing feelings
  • Poor coping strategies


Self-harm may be an attempt to:

  • Provide a distraction from emotional pain by inducing physical pain
  • Punish oneself for mistakes/faults
  • Externally express emotions
  • Experience a sense of authority over one’s body, life situations, or feelings


Types of self-harm:

  • A cutting (eg./ using sharp objects like knives)
  • Burning (eg./ with lit matches or lighters)
  • Self-hitting, biting, or headbanging
  • Engraving symbols or words on the skin


Effects



Stigma, whether subtle or obvious, has a huge impact on affected individuals. It imparts harmful effects on sufferers for instance; Discrimination or societal stereotype leads to treatment avoidance, lesser opportunities, lower self-esteem, increased complications in symptoms, difficulty in maintaining relationships, difficulty in work, bullying, violence or even sometimes harassments.



If someone around you is self-harming:



If you notice someone around you avoids social activities, has frequent wounds and bandages, and wears long sleeves/shorts even in hot weather, they may be self-harming. Other signs might be impulsivity, trouble in interpersonal relationships, and expressions of worthlessness/hopelessness. If you think someone is struggling with self-harm, start a safe conversation with them and ask if they’re okay and if they need support. Be there for them—listen attentively to what they’re saying and don’t invalidate their feelings/actions. You can also lightly encourage them to see a doctor or a mental health professional if possible, but never force it on someone unless they’re ready.


References:

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/self-injury/symptoms-causes/syc-20350950 https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Common-with-Mental-Illness/Self-harm https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/publications/truth-about-self-harm



YME Volunteer 2024



"Hands down, one of the best educational non-profits that impact underprivileged youth, in a manner very few other organizations are able to do so"